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I am officially on day 2 of my 17 week challenge and am doing pretty well besides the fact that I have school starting up in a week and I thought I would have a few more things organized by now than I do. Lets just say I am a bit stressed. In fact more stressed than I have been in a good year or so as I have been able to eliminate stress by making my household more frugal and simple by ridding it of all the extra "crap". So why am I so stressed right now you ask? I am a goal setter junky! I don't know if I just like the feeling I get when I accomplish something or if I feel I need to prove something....? The ultimate problem with this is I take on far too much than I can handle and I like everything to be perfect. So, again with school starting back up in one week I need to figure out how I am going to find time to cook, clean, bathe, get my kids from place A to B, find homework time, find family time, and figure out how I am going to pay for it all :-/ Man oh man is reaching for the "American Dream" stressful!
Luckily in all of this, I do have a supportive husband. The only problem with relying on him to help with the cleaning (he is a great cook even though I have to remind him that meat and cheese is only good in moderation and that beer doesn't need to be added to everything!) is that he doesn't clean to my expectations. He is the type of guy who will do the dishes but not wipe down the counter or do the laundry and leave a load overnight in the washer, can you say dingy? Then when it comes to the girls, he has a very short attention span and does not deal with whining. Well you would think that is good, but, when a toddler or an infant is in that mode and you respond by yelling, you get no where....But, I guess if I want the help I will have to take what I can get and maybe just maybe he will figure it all out on his own, lol!
So how am I dealing with this stress? Well not necessarily the correct way so I am going to remind myself and quite possibly you on some healthier and more natural ways to relieve the pressure that stress puts on to your body. Because if you are like me right now and trying to lose some excess weight, stress is probably going to get in your way and will get a tight hold on that fat you are trying to eliminate!
Today my day consisted of waking up, drinking a cup of coffee, getting the kids and I ready and out the door, having a physical done, home to take a long nap and then more coffee on my way to work! I would say that this is my first official low of my weight loss challenge and it is only day two. Sure I am on track for calories for the day and probably will be for the day and sure I have a nice long workout scheduled for tonight after work. But, again with being stressed and loading up on caffeine I will get no where fast. So, I need to take some time and figure out what I can do to get on track and quick. Here are some great tips on how to rid yourself of this toxic thing called stress that I am sure EVERYONE faces every once in a while and some a few more than others.
While thinking about all the ways I could elevate this stress, I realized I actually did do a few. For instance, I took a nap and just shut off my mind for a moment, as my mother suggested and believe it or not I slept a solid hour and 45 minutes, falling asleep almost as fast as I hit the pillow! Another thing I am doing is I am writing about it! I am not completely venting as I don't feel like anyone would care to hear more than I shared as a lot more people are dealing with worse! But, at least I am moving towards a healthier way of dealing.
A few other ideas on how to deal with everyday stress besides nap or write would be to take a nice warm bath (maybe with a glass of red wine and a piece of dark chocolate..make an event out of it!), read a book, breath deeper (this one doesn't seem to do it for me), find a distraction (preferably not your children, they may make matters worse if they need a nap!), minimize what you have going on, exercise, go on a nice long nature walk and take in the beauty around you, drink some herbal tea (this is what I should have done instead of coffee), emerge yourself into a hobby, get a massage, have some quiet time, read, yoga or just laugh! All of these things I enjoy and in the moment I forget about. The good thing is once I do get busy on something else(like work or blogging!)and after a good night sleep everything seems to be less intense than it once was and I tend to think about how silly I was in the first place to spend so much of my precious time worrying over something so petty! I hope this little reminder helped you out because if it didn't it at least calmed me down.
| Love Montana! Wish I could find one of the pictures we have of the hidden waterfall but this is just as pretty! |
Thanks for reading and hope everyone is having a sunny day!

